I'm not sure if Miller actually contacted Parrom while he was under his LOI with Xavier. I think Miller was the main reason Parrom chose Xavier, so I guess it's only natural Parrom would want to follow him to Arizona. It's a great program that now has Miller and Book Richardson.
I mean, it's a free country. If Kevin doesn't want to go to Arizona, he doesn't have to. And the article made it sound as if Parrom reached out to Miller, which I don't think is illegal if the recruit contacts the coach.
Let's not confuse things. It's not as if Miller is ripping off the roof of the Cintas Center and hand-picking whichever Xavier player/recruit he wants for his Wildcat squad. These kids make the ultimate decision of where they want to play. I agree, it's pretty shitty what's happening, but it takes two to tango.