Originally Posted by
ArizonaXUGrad
She should have kept her legs closed, she is the town bicycle, etc. I hear/read this crap all the time. I have a daughter and I know exactly how I am going to raise her, but when I read and hear that rhetoric it's pure behavior control. Your second comment about "self control" is behavior control. The 60s and 70s already happened, cat is out of the bag. Pre-marital sex is no longer shamed in our world and it hasn't for decades. These are the waters that need to be navigated.
Please don't fool yourself, your question to me whether I have a daughter was absolutely shaming language. You just wanted to post, well you don't have a daughter so you don't know or you can't have an opinion.