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Xuperman
11-17-2019, 11:35 AM
There’s a short lull in the action, so felt it’s a good time to start this tread. I am interested in everybody’s option on something.

Some of us here frequent the Holy Land Big East site. I joined a short time ago hoping to get some inside info on the other BE teams and fan perspective.

A couple of months ago, xusandy started a thread there title “Nova still on top?” that coincided with some standard smack talk on other threads. I made no bones that X, having returned almost all of their key pieces + 2 top transfers and nice incoming class, should be top 1/2 in conference this year and was confused why almost all national pundits were picking Nova, having lost BOTH there senior leaders along with their heavy weighted production. I strongly pointed out that their returning roster is largely unproven and freshman reliant....posted something like “VU is being picked to win the league on name rec alone” referring to their obvious recent Championships.

Well all hell broke loose as a long standing Nova guy there immediately started to belittle our program and totally downplay our accomplishments. Then a group of his merry men jumped in and proceeded to continue the insults to the XAVIER PROGRAM, in the most disrespectful manor possible. You know, an endless barrage of Mid Major garbage...“that A10 flagship nothing but a BE ankle biter” etc.

I took issue and went on to defend our program and proud history by lashing back at the VU POSTERS...NOT THEIR PROGRAM. That’s a BIG DIFFERENCE! However I did say they LOOKED LIKE a half ass AAU team and pretty boys getting slapped around vs OSU, but they did!

Here’s the thing, a few of our board members here chimed in and basically disavowed me. One even saying I’m the kind of fan he can do without.....it’s almost like some don’t know when they’re being insulted. Sorry but these Nova snobs are just bunch of condescending dudes on a fan board. They’re an fan base with an entitled attitude. I for one as a PROUD XAVIER FAN will never be in a ring kissing mood.

WHAT SAY YOU?

drudy23
11-17-2019, 11:46 AM
It's hard to pick a fight with a 3 time national champ when you haven't reached a Final Four yet.

If we're being honest, we're not what Villanova is. Not to mention, they have probably a top 5 respected coach. Wright is the real deal, and has provided a calming and high-level consistency that's quite impressive for a small private school in Pennsylvania pretty similar in size to Xavier.

I guess what I'm saying is, they deserve and have earned the benefit of the doubt. X has come a LONG way and that rise deserves respect, but Nova is what we're striving to be.

GoMuskies
11-17-2019, 12:04 PM
Picking a fight with Nova fans? Not the hill to die on. We’re essentially their Dayton.

Masterofreality
11-17-2019, 12:10 PM
Picking a fight with Nova fans? Not the hill to die on. We’re essentially their Dayton.

True Dat.

UCGRAD4X
11-17-2019, 02:36 PM
Sorry XUP, got to agree that Nova fans deserve to thump their chests. I'm sure there is a plethora of their fans that are used to owning the Big East so they see it as basically their site and see you (and Xavier in general) as an interloper. And there are always going to arrogant pricks ready to pounce on any semblance of opposition. I'm not sure the Dayton analogy fits, but if a cryer fan gets on here throwing down, I would probably be one of those assholes.

The one other thing to consider is - maybe they are feeling the heat and being a bit defensive.

Still, they've earned it.

JTG
11-17-2019, 02:41 PM
Ditto, you chose the wrong fight to pick. We're 4-0, but have pretty much looked like slop.

Xuperman
11-17-2019, 03:14 PM
Ok, but to be clear, I am ONLY speaking of a proper response to Gumby & Co after their consistent "Mid Major" slander toward X. Can we all agree we've earned our way past that crap? Maybe I should have just stayed away from the keyboard....nah.

American X
11-17-2019, 03:32 PM
If someone on the internet is wrong, it is your solemn duty to spend day and night changing their mind.

Strange Brew
11-17-2019, 04:07 PM
If someone on the internet is wrong, it is your solemn duty to spend day and night changing their mind.

And we’re just the guys to do it....

xubrew
11-17-2019, 04:11 PM
Wrong?? Maybe.

Out of line?? No.

It's an internet message board. Sometimes it's fun just to stir the pot for the sake of stirring the pot.

scoscox
11-17-2019, 04:20 PM
Wrong?? Maybe.

Out of line?? No.

It's an internet message board. Sometimes it's fun just to stir the pot for the sake of stirring the pot.

yea, i don't mind it. who cares? i said their loss to ohio state was disappointing and one of them jumped down my throat for that, saying they could "take a dump at half court and forfeit every game" and i'm not allowed to say anything lol they could do well with people taking them down a peg every now and then

xeus
11-17-2019, 04:34 PM
It's an internet message board. Sometimes it's fun just to stir the pot for the sake of stirring the pot.

#snipe

X-man
11-17-2019, 06:03 PM
I read HOH all the time, and the other BE fans almost totally are very complimentary of what X has brought to the league. Some, mostly Nova fans, didn't appreciate your trashing their team this year, and they responded in kind against YOU. For those of you who haven't read that board, go there and you will see that other than responding to Xuperman's claims that Nova shouldn't be the top dog preseason, virtually all league fans are respectful of all their fellow fans and very appreciative of Xavier.

Xuperman
11-17-2019, 07:46 PM
I guess proper fan board etiquette, ESPECIALLY as it pertains to Nova, is above my pay grade because if by factually stating that their roster is unproven and freshman heavy is considered "trashing", they clearly were warranted in attacking the ENTIRE HISTORY of our program.

I simply blasted back on some dudes on a message board for doing it...them personally NOT their team. I see a clear difference between the two.

Really surprised that more here don't feel offended about those "eggs-avier" type insults continuing to have life considering the last 20 years.

X-band '01
11-17-2019, 08:02 PM
Until Xavier beats Nova on a regular basis and/or is winning national titles like Nova, you have to expect that kind of reaction from their fanbase. You can be rah-rah-Xavier-sis-boom-bah all you want, but it's naive to think their fans won't respond in kind.

Just eat your losses now and don't go down the LH path to the Dark Side.

nuts4xu
11-17-2019, 08:51 PM
Really surprised that more here don't feel offended about those "eggs-avier" type insults continuing to have life considering the last 20 years.

Anyone using “eggs-avier” type insults at this point needs new material. If you are going to be trading words with any of our opponents, I dont Think the Nova fan base is your best option. We lose to them 80% of the time, so it seems like you’re barking up the wrong tree.

xudash
11-17-2019, 09:19 PM
I read HOH all the time, and the other BE fans almost totally are very complimentary of what X has brought to the league. Some, mostly Nova fans, didn't appreciate your trashing their team this year, and they responded in kind against YOU. For those of you who haven't read that board, go there and you will see that other than responding to Xuperman's claims that Nova shouldn't be the top dog preseason, virtually all league fans are respectful of all their fellow fans and very appreciative of Xavier.

This is exactly how I see it.

XUP, I love and respect your enthusiasm and love for Xavier, but I believe you took that thread a little too personally, Gumby and those guys actually do respect Xavier a lot, as do most other BE fans.

The number of "shades" of perception and commentary on message boards could rival the number of shades of paint you see in a Lowe's or Home Depot.

Xavier's program has nothing to be ashamed of, even with its lack of F4's and no NC's. But you don't want to drive into a conversation like that in general, let alone based on early season perceptions and data. Nothing has been proven yet this year. Ironically, once upon a time Oklahoma crushed Nova at the beginning of the season and then Nova obliterated the Sooners in that year's F4 on their way to a NC. Consider that an anecdotal reason for not going down the "we're better than you on paper this time around" road,

Everyone is entitled to their opinion and anonymity allows posters to post some rather amazing things. HLOH has been much more about camaraderie than anything else, and certainly as compared to the nonsense we used to have to put up with on the A10 board.

I say we stay focused on achieving our 2% and the rest of it will take care of itself.

Stay passionate, but don't read too much into the Nova guys trashing Xavier. They were defending their program. And they have the ammunition to do just that.

slysyl
11-17-2019, 10:29 PM
The east coast fans tend to look down their noses at the Mid West Schools, in both the BIG East, and A10. We showed the A10, and we will show the Big East who we are. I think we have done pretty good so far.

UCGRAD4X
11-18-2019, 06:39 AM
I guess proper fan board etiquette, ESPECIALLY as it pertains to Nova, is above my pay grade because if by factually stating that their roster is unproven and freshman heavy is considered "trashing", they clearly were warranted in attacking the ENTIRE HISTORY of our program.

I simply blasted back on some dudes on a message board for doing it...them personally NOT their team. I see a clear difference between the two.

Really surprised that more here don't feel offended about those "eggs-avier" type insults continuing to have life considering the last 20 years.

You didn't do ANYTHING wrong. And the "eggs-avier" comments are simply eggnorant. I'm not insulted by such a feeble response (Child, Please).

I admit to never visiting that board and might have even responded the same way as you. I just would have chalked it up to them defending their recently butt-hurt program and me defending mine. Yeah it sucks but our day will come.

Not to hijack the thread, but when some here get frustrated with the play and don't simply say,"A win is a win" or "Any win is a good win" (which I don't necessarily disagree with) but worry that if these things don't get fixed, it will take Xavier longer to get to the place where we will be able to respond with righteous indignation and back it up.

bleedXblue
11-18-2019, 07:23 AM
Xavier is a great program but we aren't on Nova's level. Got a long way to go.

You cant expect them to respect you when you give them grief for one bad game. How many times has X been run out of the gym by Nova?

Xuperman
11-18-2019, 08:59 AM
The EAST COAST fans tend to look down their noses at the Mid West Schools, in both the BIG East, and A10.

BINGO!! THAT is exactly the real problem I have with these people. I lived in the NYC area for 8 years and there is a palpable disdain for average mid-westerners in their culture. I went to a lot of A10 games in Philly and it might be even worse there....quickly learned that sporting X gear was not a good idea, especially AFTER a Temple game. :shocked: And, wait for it, their political views tend to hide under the surface when bashing X. The “after a few Nattys” comment is a perfect example.

I’m a ALL CINCY guy and a proud X fan. As for those who think Nova fans speak highly of Xavier, just know that it’s really just a patronizing pat on the head. I for one can’t play nice with some entitled dicks on a message board. Sorry if I embarrass anyone in the future. Have I reached the Dark Side yet?

nuts4xu
11-18-2019, 09:35 AM
Sorry if I embarrass anyone in the future. Have I reached the Dark Side yet?

With all due respect, no one gives a squirt of piss about what you post on a message board...especially one that we aren't currently reading.

Dark side? Boy, What in the HELL are you talking about?

It's great you are engaged in message board conversation, but it's like your fantasy football team. No one gives a crap. I am not one to censor anyone, nor am i attempting to stifle your enthusiasm. It's your life, you are in control of your own happiness, so whatever floats your boat. I just don't know what you are hoping to accomplish here...venting about dudes on the HOH message board. It's your crusade, fight it as you see fit.

No one is embarrassed, no one cares either. As the band Kansas once said so eloquently "Carry on my wayward son" and "don't you cry no more".

Xuperman
11-18-2019, 09:42 AM
Just eat your losses now and don't go down the LH path to the Dark Side.

I’m not sure myself.

IM4X
11-18-2019, 10:39 AM
This is exactly how I see it.

XUP, I love and respect your enthusiasm and love for Xavier, but I believe you took that thread a little too personally, Gumby and those guys actually do respect Xavier a lot, as do most other BE fans.

The number of "shades" of perception and commentary on message boards could rival the number of shades of paint you see in a Lowe's or Home Depot.

Xavier's program has nothing to be ashamed of, even with its lack of F4's and no NC's. But you don't want to drive into a conversation like that in general, let alone based on early season perceptions and data. Nothing has been proven yet this year. Ironically, once upon a time Oklahoma crushed Nova at the beginning of the season and then Nova obliterated the Sooners in that year's F4 on their way to a NC. Consider that an anecdotal reason for not going down the "we're better than you on paper this time around" road,

Everyone is entitled to their opinion and anonymity allows posters to post some rather amazing things. HLOH has been much more about camaraderie than anything else, and certainly as compared to the nonsense we used to have to put up with on the A10 board.

I say we stay focused on achieving our 2% and the rest of it will take care of itself.

Stay passionate, but don't read too much into the Nova guys trashing Xavier. They were defending their program. And they have the ammunition to do just that.

great post!!!

IM4X
11-18-2019, 11:21 AM
It’s always a good idea to stay classy when speaking of other teams.

Not a bad thought for all of us X fans. It is a sign we have arrived and are no longer that “Mid Major” team that still is not getting respect. Fact is, the general consensus is that X is a legit top 25 program that does not need to prove anything anymore... other than that it can win a BE tournament and get to the final four. Remember that we have an assistant from Georgia who when taking the job at X said (paraphrasing), “How could I pass up going to a program with a great basketball tradition like Xavier.”

We are well respected in this conference and that has happened by simply kicking your opponents butt or at least proving you can beat them. X continues to prove they can beaten everyone in the BE including Nova (though obviously not as often). We have earned the perception by most as a legit contender for the BE title - year in and year out. If not for Nova, it is likely X would have a few BE titles already.

Now that we no longer are the little team that surprises and are now a big time program, expected to finish at the top and go toe to toe with Nova, we have to start acting like fans of that big time program.

Show genuine respect to everyone you play, while quietly making sure you are prepared enough to kick a$$.

This is the Jay Wright approach with his Villanova teams and I respect the hell out of it.

He has his teams well prepared and then just pours on the niceties to everyone around him. I do think it is a very genuine and a very smart approach. I also see a little of Jay in Travis.

True that Nova does not have the same level of experience (and maybe not even the same level of talent) this year. The wise person is he who recognizes that Jay will get his team playing better as the season continues-count on it. As we all know, X is hardly a special looking team right now. Yes, we have four returning starters... who currently can not seem to shoot for beans from outside. Hopefully that gets better. But we should be careful about too much smack talk.

Smack talk is okay for a game but often comes back to bite you in the butt when boast about a team that has yet to truly prove itself on the court.

drudy23
11-18-2019, 11:57 AM
With all due respect, no one gives a squirt of piss about what you post on a message board...especially one that we aren't currently reading.

Dark side? Boy, What in the HELL are you talking about?

It's great you are engaged in message board conversation, but it's like your fantasy football team. No one gives a crap. I am not one to censor anyone, nor am i attempting to stifle your enthusiasm. It's your life, you are in control of your own happiness, so whatever floats your boat. I just don't know what you are hoping to accomplish here...venting about dudes on the HOH message board. It's your crusade, fight it as you see fit.

No one is embarrassed, no one cares either. As the band Kansas once said so eloquently "Carry on my wayward son" and "don't you cry no more".

This.

xubrew
11-18-2019, 12:04 PM
With all due respect, no one gives a squirt of piss about what you post on a message board...especially one that we aren't currently reading.

Dark side? Boy, What in the HELL are you talking about?

It's great you are engaged in message board conversation, but it's like your fantasy football team. No one gives a crap. I am not one to censor anyone, nor am i attempting to stifle your enthusiasm. It's your life, you are in control of your own happiness, so whatever floats your boat. I just don't know what you are hoping to accomplish here...venting about dudes on the HOH message board. It's your crusade, fight it as you see fit.

No one is embarrassed, no one cares either. As the band Kansas once said so eloquently "Carry on my wayward son" and "don't you cry no more".

Yeah, pretty much.

Being completely candid, I used to have to spend a lot of time constantly traveling to places that were really boring. Getting into arguments on message boards was a way to pass the time. Sometimes I'd just argue for the sake of arguing and not because I really cared one way or the other. The posters that I enjoyed the most are the ones that I went at the most and that came at me the most. By no means is that a productive way to spend my time, but at the very least it was amusing enough.

I don't think the vast majority of people care. They just like talking hoops and arguing about hoops and being able to do so anonymously and without any consequence. You asked if you were out of line. No, you weren't. And neither were they.

xudash
11-18-2019, 12:16 PM
It’s always a good idea to stay classy when speaking of other teams.

Not a bad thought for all of us X fans. It is a sign we have arrived and are no longer that “Mid Major” team that still is not getting respect. Fact is, the general consensus is that X is a legit top 25 program that does not need to prove anything anymore... other than that it can win a BE tournament and get to the final four. Remember that we have an assistant from Georgia who when taking the job at X said (paraphrasing), “How could I pass up going to a program with a great basketball tradition like Xavier.”

We are well respected in this conference and that has happened by simply kicking your opponents butt or at least proving you can beat them. X continues to prove they can beaten everyone in the BE including Nova (though obviously not as often). We have earned the perception by most as a legit contender for the BE title - year in and year out. If not for Nova, it is likely X would have a few BE titles already.

Now that we no longer are the little team that surprises and are now a big time program, expected to finish at the top and go toe to toe with Nova, we have to start acting like fans of that big time program.

Show genuine respect to everyone you play, while quietly making sure you are prepared enough to kick a$$.

This is the Jay Wright approach with his Villanova teams and I respect the hell out of it.

He has his teams well prepared and then just pours on the niceties to everyone around him. I do think it is a very genuine and a very smart approach. I also see a little of Jay in Travis.

True that Nova does not have the same level of experience (and maybe not even the same level of talent) this year. The wise person is he who recognizes that Jay will get his team playing better as the season continues-count on it. As we all know, X is hardly a special looking team right now. Yes, we have four returning starters... who currently can not seem to shoot for beans from outside. Hopefully that gets better. But we should be careful about too much smack talk.

Smack talk is okay for a game but often comes back to bite you in the butt when boast about a team that has yet to truly prove itself on the court.

Better post than mine.

Staying classy is the way to go.

Perhaps "no one" gives a squirt of anything about what you post on a message board, but I would think most people enjoy reading classy posts versus reading obnoxious nonsense.

The high road is a nice way to make the journey.

paulxu
11-18-2019, 05:13 PM
It’s always a good idea to stay classy when speaking of other teams.

Wait! What about our crosstown rival? Do I have to do it for them also?

Ack.

xukeith
11-18-2019, 05:21 PM
Wait! What about our crosstown rival? Do I have to do it for them also?

Ack.

Never ever be classy to UC unless they have gone 0-30 for 5 straight years, then we can be classy.

X-band '01
11-18-2019, 05:54 PM
So should we also be classy when discussing teams from Dayton?

EDIT: Hell yes. Wright State has earned the right to be an occasional buy game at Cintas.

IM4X
11-18-2019, 08:39 PM
Wait! What about our crosstown rival? Do I have to do it for them also?

Ack.

There is usually an exception to every rule... and I’ll be damned if you didn’t just find it.

Though, UC made one big mistake when hiring their new coach. A guy who is not like Huggins or Cronin... No, he is not of that ilk - Unfortunately, he comes across too likable.

xubrew
11-19-2019, 09:12 AM
So should we also be classy when discussing teams from Dayton?

EDIT: Hell yes. Wright State has earned the right to be an occasional buy game at Cintas.

If X scheduled a home and home with Wright State, and then claimed that they saw value in scheduling good teams from around the region, I wouldn't be sad!

Roach
11-20-2019, 08:42 PM
As a current Philly resident, I have to agree that getting into a debate with Nova fans is ill-advised, even if you make valid points, have a decent argument, and are respectful. Think about it this way - most Villanova fans are also Eagles fans, except that they have 3 championships to their name, so they’re even more defensive, obnoxious, and ready to throw down. They act like they’re God’s gift to basketball, and although they’re often extremely haughty and disrespectful, it’s just not worth getting into a pissing match with them. They’ll pull you down to their level and beat you with experience.

Snipe
11-21-2019, 10:15 PM
#snipe

I resemble that remark

F. Nova

American X
11-23-2019, 03:43 PM
Don't listen to them. You get back out there and change minds on the internet. But say you are a Butler fan, so nobody thinks you are associated with Xavier. It will work.

IM4X
11-23-2019, 05:21 PM
Don't listen to them. You get back out there and change minds on the internet. But say you are a Butler fan, so nobody thinks you are associated with Xavier. It will work.

Ha... That’s not bad.

“X will kick the butt of that joke of a team Nova has this year and their is nothing their pretentious fans can do about it ... that’s just my personal opinion as a Butler fan.”

MADXSTER
11-23-2019, 07:20 PM
Don't listen to them. You get back out there and change minds on the internet. But say you are a Butler fan, so nobody thinks you are associated with Xavier. It will work.

You will also be considered Classy

UCGRAD4X
11-24-2019, 07:16 AM
You will also be considered Classy

Not if he does even a reasonable impersonation of a Butler fan.

UCGRAD4X
11-24-2019, 07:18 AM
Not if he does even a reasonable impersonation of a Butler fan.

Was that out of line?

[like quoting myself]

Xuperman
11-24-2019, 11:22 AM
Ok, unless this thread gets totally hijacked, it has served it’s purpose. Obviously we’re just a bunch of fans on a message board and 1 or 2 here could give a rats ass (which makes me wonder why be here in the first place?). But it seems that most here are OK with the Nova fan base lobing a barrage of mid major insults our way. It’s justified and any push back is a waste of time, not having the factually ammo to make a respectable argument. Beat them 10 straight, win a few BE Championships, a couple of F4s and a NC first...until then, know your place and be classy.

X-band '01
11-24-2019, 11:42 AM
Don't listen to them. You get back out there and change minds on the internet. But say you are a Butler fan, so nobody thinks you are associated with Xavier. It will work.

Yes, but I'll have to take another shower after feeling that dirty.

And yes, we're hijacking this thread again for the greater good.

UCGRAD4X
11-24-2019, 02:42 PM
So, how about the climate change stuff?

That's messed up!

X-band '01
11-24-2019, 03:17 PM
I thought that was a smart thing for the Yale students to do - at least it got a few eyeballs on their game yesterday.

xubrew
11-24-2019, 03:46 PM
I thought that was a smart thing for the Yale students to do - at least it got a few eyeballs on their game yesterday.

I agree! And have you noticed how much better the climate has been since they did it!!??

94GRAD
11-24-2019, 04:02 PM
I agree! And have you noticed how much better the climate has been since they did it!!??

FALSE! It's much colder in Charleston today than yesterday!

GoMuskies
11-24-2019, 04:02 PM
I agree! And have you noticed how much better the climate has been since they did it!!??

Yep, the climate is downright pleasant today in Wichita. Thanks Yalies!

Snipe
11-25-2019, 12:55 AM
Ok, unless this thread gets totally hijacked, it has served it’s purpose. Obviously we’re just a bunch of fans on a message board and 1 or 2 here could give a rats ass (which makes me wonder why be here in the first place?). But it seems that most here are OK with the Nova fan base lobing a barrage of mid major insults our way. It’s justified and any push back is a waste of time, not having the factually ammo to make a respectable argument. Beat them 10 straight, win a few BE Championships, a couple of F4s and a NC first...until then, know your place and be classy.

Fuck Nova. They own it all. I hate them. They really are doing well with their National Championships. Jay Wright is also regrettably a class act. Hate to do this to you Jay, after all we have been though...but fuck you and the horse you rode in on. We don't have to beat them to hate on them, but beating them is better. Otherwise I feel like Dayton. F Nova though.

If you want to be critical of Nova, I say you should be critical of Nova. Screw them. The truth hurts! (It is your truth!). Let them rain down on us. That is what they really think of us anyway. All the ass kissers that hang around giving them oral pleasure are a disgrace to Xavier fans. They are fluffers.

I would rather live on my feet than die on my knees. Screw Nova and their tyranny. Fight the Power! Win or die trying.

UCGRAD4X
11-25-2019, 06:58 AM
Wow! Even Snipe didn't take the global warming bait to keep the Villanova trash talk going.

Glad to see your dedication to the Xavier BB program cause overrides even the potential and impending destruction of all mankind.

Can I have your baby?

Or is that out of line?

xubrew
11-26-2019, 10:01 AM
Fuck Nova. They own it all. I hate them. They really are doing well with their National Championships. Jay Wright is also regrettably a class act. Hate to do this to you Jay, after all we have been though...but fuck you and the horse you rode in on. We don't have to beat them to hate on them, but beating them is better. Otherwise I feel like Dayton. F Nova though.

If you want to be critical of Nova, I say you should be critical of Nova. Screw them. The truth hurts! (It is your truth!). Let them rain down on us. That is what they really think of us anyway. All the ass kissers that hang around giving them oral pleasure are a disgrace to Xavier fans. They are fluffers.

I would rather live on my feet than die on my knees. Screw Nova and their tyranny. Fight the Power! Win or die trying.

Nothing about this post is out of line!