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Always Learning
12-26-2014, 02:05 PM
No, this is not off topic (XU Basketball) because Tom Ballaban in his life made great contributions to our program, as a recruiter, athletic board member, Musketeer Club President, so ......

f there ever was a man who bled blue more than Ballaban, I know not of him.
He was one helluva football coach, one helluva teacher, and a great friend to me personally, and to Xavier athletics in particular.
I never knew anyone with a greater sense of humor that he had.
Allow me to share a couple of his quick wit.
Tom was a typical Catholic school employee, and that means he loved what he did at St Xavier High, but it also meant that his paycheck was rather thin vs what public school football coaches took home, so he had second, and even third jobs.
One was as a college basketball official, and he was a great one. Great because he was a “jock” and he appreciated players, and coaches respected him. It may have happed, but I never knew of him calling a tech on anyone.
Well, “Bal” was a Big Ten official and one night was working a Marquette game when they were #1.
At the ready for the tip off, Al McGuige gave his best intimidation shot by patting “Bal” on the butt and saying, “this is a big game, you up to it?”
“Bal” never batted an eye, just calling back to Al as the game started, “hell, if you can coach it, I sure as hell can referee it.’
McGuire loved to tell that story.
“Bal” was also the Chief Usher in the
Clubhouse at River Downs, and along with yours truly, used to see that other GCL coaches , and players from both UC and XU (OK, we were a little heavy on XU players) got the summer jobs as
Ushers, gatemen, parking lot attendants etc.
One afternoon Tom made a wager on a nag that got beat by another one in a six furlong race with a ridiculous time of 1:16.2.
Outraged, and in a loud voice heard throughout the second floor box seat area, he yelled, “My God, I have three ushers working here who can run six furlongs in 1:16.2.” The place erupted in laughter.
He and his wife Clair had all girls, and
To listen to him talk about his home life of trying to get time in their one bath to shave, and work his way thru the hanging slips, hose, etc would be a top stand-up comic act.
But my fav story is when Jerry Faust took the job at Moeller, as their first football coach. Tom got him a job as a cash messenger at RD which meant he was going back and forth from the money room to the clubhouse.
One afternoon he stopped by my office and asked me if working for Moeller did they expect him to win right away.
I knew Bal was behind this so I said that they would give him at least a year, but then he would have to win big or be gone.
Moeller played St. X like the second game of the year, a mismatch, but damn if Moeller didn’t win.
I called Bal that morning after the game, and told him, “Bal, we may created a monster, and he said he was
afraid so too.”
We all know the rest of the story, don’t we.
There wasn’t a GCL coach that Tom didn’t respect, and likewise.
He was the kind of man that had everyone’s respect, he was my friend, he was everything that I love about Xavier.
Pace Domini “Bal” you made us all who knew you better people.

XUGRAD80
12-26-2014, 05:04 PM
I didn't know him, but I can tell you that he was certainly well respected by the coach's and players from his opposition. Coach Bacavich, at RB, always let it be known that when we played ST X, we would be playing against a well coached team that didn't beat themselves. While there was certainly a very high level of intensity between the two schools, I don't remember it being ugly or distasteful the way the XU-UC rivalry can get. I think a big part of that was because the head coach's seemly liked and respected each other. It seems every few months we lose another great figure in XU and Cincinnati sports history.....time waits for no man. RIP Coach.

D-West & PO-Z
12-26-2014, 07:41 PM
Thank you for the kind words above. Tom Ballaban is my grandfather. He loved Xavier and is the reason that I am, despite never having attended Xavier, such a die hard Xavier fan. "Pop", as myself and cousins called him, was an amazing man who accomplished so much in life and touched so many people. Outside of my parents he was the most influential person in my life and I wouldng be who I am, or where I am, today without him. He cared more about the well being and lives of the kids he taught and coached than he ever did about winning games.

Everyone I have ever met that knows my grandpa has a favorite story about him. I will definitely enjoy reading any that anyone here posts and will enjoy sharing them with my family.

paulxu
12-26-2014, 09:12 PM
Prayers for your granddad D-West.

xu82
12-26-2014, 09:23 PM
Wow, so sorry for the family and friends close to this loss. A life that touches so many people in such an important way is a life well lived.

I was in a gym once with the father of the best player on one son's AAU team (who had a pretty good ACC hoops career) and the grandfather of my other son's best friend, a retired long time coach at a local high school. I was about to introduce them when the dad turned to me and said "this man saved my life". It turns out there were a lot of others just like him. I knew them both so well, but had no idea they knew each other. I was so shocked and choked up I couldn't speak. People like this touch generations of lives and make the world a better place. RIP.

Mel Cooley XU'81
12-27-2014, 12:08 PM
Peace and prayers for Tom Ballaban.

And condolences to you, DW&PZ, and to your family.

My dad was a contemporary of Tom Ballaban at XU and remembered him warmly as a great guy.

Thanks for the post, AL. Nothing like horse racing stories at a wake!

RIP.

pimpinthebox
12-28-2014, 11:09 AM
Mr. Ballaban taught me at St. X. He was a great man and, to be honest, scared the ever-loving shit out of the scrawny little freshman that I was. I'll never forget the time when someone fell asleep in his class with his head on the desk. He walked up to him and hammered him (old-school-style) in the back to wake him up. I tell that story and laugh to this day (some 20+ years later). He would command the room when he spoke, was a true legend at St. X, and his dedication to Xavier is undeniable. He will be missed.

Sorry for your loss, D-WEST & PO-Z.

XU 87
12-28-2014, 11:41 AM
A great guy and the funniest teacher I ever had. He was a one man show at the St. X HOF dinners.

D-West & PO-Z
12-28-2014, 01:19 PM
Thanks for all the warm thoughts/stories and the prayers/well wishes, they mean a lot.

Funeral arrangements:

Wake on 1/5/14 at St. X High from 4pm to 8pm either in gym or chapel.

Funeral on 1/6/14 at XU (Bellarmine) at 10:30am.

xudash
12-28-2014, 01:53 PM
Thank you for the kind words above. Tom Ballaban is my grandfather. He loved Xavier and is the reason that I am, despite never having attended Xavier, such a die hard Xavier fan. "Pop", as myself and cousins called him, was an amazing man who accomplished so much in life and touched so many people. Outside of my parents he was the most influential person in my life and I wouldng be who I am, or where I am, today without him. He cared more about the well being and lives of the kids he taught and coached than he ever did about winning games.

Everyone I have ever met that knows my grandpa has a favorite story about him. I will definitely enjoy reading any that anyone here posts and will enjoy sharing them with my family.

I had the pleasure of meeting and working with one of your relatives from Pittsburgh when I was involved with the Xavier Pittsburgh Alumni Chapter. It was pretty clear then that the Ballaban family had strong characters and a deep love for Xavier.

God bless your grandfather and your family.

aramis
12-30-2014, 11:29 AM
Having Bal for a teacher is one of my greatest memories ever. I remember stopping by outside his classroom just to hear a few moments of his class and soak it it in for a moment. I always enjoyed going to his class.

He'd tell little guys they'd "make a great jockey down at the track"

And ".....Joan of Arc, burned at the stake as a steak" Ha!